Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Had to share this one!





I know that Tim finds it hard to go to work all day and just talk to Joy on the phone during the day. So I know that when Joy wants to get her boots on and her coat and waits at the door for Daddy's truck, it's pretty special for him!
Definitely, Daddy's Litte Girl!

Doggie Kisses for Breakfast




Well, we didn't need to worry about Joy and the dogs! When Joy wakes up in the morning, the first thing she does is look for Katrina. Katrina will then crawl up to her and kiss her and wag her tail. Squeals of delight and laughter follow, with "ikat, mama".

Katrina is a god-send! She loves her nap after lunch. And guess who will go to sleep with her?! Yeah!!

And today, when I put Katrina in her crate so we could go to the store, Joy leans in and says, "wo ai ni, Katrina" (I love you, Katrina). Very cute!!

It's been a whirlwind here, as those of you with toddlers can imagine! I'm not sure what I had thought it would be like. I don't really think I let myself imagine that. But I'm pretty sure that whatever I was thinking is maybe what it will be down the road from here.

The language issue is more profound than I thought it would be. I don't mean to sound naive - I knew it would be a challenge. But what I thought would be hard isn't, and what I hadn't thought of is. First of all, I have to say her name about 6 times to get her attention sometimes. Either she's daydreaming, thinking of what she wants to do next, or it just takes a while to go, oh yeah, that's MY name!

She is in constant motion too! So talking to her to tell her what I want is sometimes like talking to the wind! I've started the "ikat" thing with her, and pointing at my eyes. That seems to be making an impression.

She is learning words and phrases and repeating them all day. On and Off. Front/back. Help me. and No....

Naptime was better today. And her eating was great today too! We went to the doctor who said she was in the 50th percentile on the American growth chart! She's grown about 2 inches since the beginning of December. So I'm not going to worry about the 4 Cuties (tangerines) and the half box of animal crackers that were eaten today!

More growing & learning for us both tomorrow!
Margaret

Monday, December 28, 2009

Snow Angels, Tissues and Carmex


Mama trying to get some work done. HAHA!


Not so sure about Daddy being at work


Snow is not as bad as she thought it was going to be! Especially since she got new boots to go with it! Her first experience of getting dressed for going outside was full of "bu yao" which means "I don't want to"! (I've heard that a lot lately....) But once she got outside, and the hat came off, and the gloves came off --- she was happy!

I guess she'll learn that cold hands make it not as much fun, but not today anyway!

Tim and Joy made snow angels and we tried to play Fox & Geese. That wasn't nearly as much fun as playing fetch with Katrina later today though! Tonight, when we went out with Katrina after dinner, Joy was exploring on her own, walking all over where Katrina was running. I was hoping it would wear her out more than it did. We'll have to run around more tomorrow for sure!

Today, I discovered the need to have tissues in every single pocket of every coat, pair of jeans or purse pocket. Just in case! And carmex is a magical thing! Her poor little nose and lips are not adjusting to the dry climate all that well. That's in every pocket as well!

The dogs came home from the kennel today. At first we had tears, but now she can't stay away from Katrina. Scarpia laid down and she went and covered him with her blanket and said, "ikat (look) mama, sleepy!" Katrina goes upstairs, I think to get a little peace and quiet and she's calling her right away. Katrina tries to lay down and Joy is petting her (not always in the right way). Poor dogs - they are both mad at me I think. They probably both wonder when this little creature is going to leave. Oh well. They will just have to be disappointed!

We went to Italco today. The idea was to show Joy where Daddy works so that when he disappears tomorrow, she'll know where he went. I am not sure that was understood, yet. I do know that she was terrified that we were going to leave her there! She didn't really relax until we got to Target. We were buying things there for her and I guess she understood that. She happily said "Hi!" to absolutely everyone! There is something fun about buying new clothes, I have to admit!

There are so many things that we take for granted. When we get in the car, or when someone leaves and says, I'll be back, we understand that. She doesn't yet. She is so dependant on what happens in the present. She is constantly looking for clues from us about how to behave, what's coming next, what words to learn.

Her little brain sometimes goes on overload - I found out today that her repeated phrase from yesterday and today is a made up phrase. She told two people who could translate for us that she didn't know what it meant either! That was a relief!

She has already learned that repeating what we say will usually illicit a laugh and a smile (especially my "wait" or "so ---"). But she's also learning that saying "thank you" gets her what she wants faster. And "I'm sorry" is the right thing to say when someone gets upset. That's a good start.

Today, with me, we were testing limits. So bathtime was full of "bu yoa" and crossed arms and shaking of head. But the tub flutes were great (thanks Tina!), and eventually, we decided it was okay, especially after getting to splash mama. Then getting dressed. Then eating breakfast. Then picking up toys - everything was a test today. But when we got to Italco, she wanted me to carry her and had her arms wrapped pretty tightly around my neck.

I must not be all that bad!

Daddy is scary sometimes, because when he says to do something, he has "that look". But he's pretty great too! He plays Tickle Monster and Pirate Ship. And he knows how to throw the toy for Katrina. That's definitely a plus.

Little does she know that he knows how to cook too! Our refrigerator has all sorts of green things in it that I've never even seen before! And I've had more rice in the last week than in the last year, I think! Her diet consists of fruit, juice, rice, ham or pork chops, some kind of green veggie and some yogurt. But when in doubt, McDonald's chicken nuggets will always work! That was a special treat there, so she will eat that with gusto! Including the french fries. Especially the french fries!

Oh, and Animal Crackers and Goldfish!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Bedtime part 1


Sunday, Dec. 27, 2009
We knew sleep was going to be an issue, for all of us at least for a little while! Last night, Joy wanted to sleep in her own bed, but then didn't really. She started to get upset and started saying the same thing over and over again. I asked her if she wanted Daddy and me to sleep in her bed and she said yes. But then agreed that we wouldn't all 3 fit. So she went trooping downstairs to our bedroom. She pointed at our bed and pointed upstairs, talking the whole time. I really think she wanted us to move our bed upstairs into her room! lol!

So we started out in her room, went to sleep in 4 minutes, but was awake in 30. And came looking for us! So, she slept in our bed. I think we won't get her in her bed for a whole night for awhile. We did do a nap in there today, but she told me I was the only one who slept. Could be....

Today has been a day to learn new words. I'm pretty sure that her repeated phrase means, "what is this called". So we have learned, or heard lots of words today. The one she likes best is "beautiful"!

We are watching "The Sound of Music" at the moment. She is entranced! We walked down the aisle with Maria and now we're singing "Auf wiedersehn" and clapping with the audience. I found out something today - she knows solfege! For my nonmusical friends, that means she knows Do, Re, Mi, etc. She was singing back to me a little song in one of her books with nonsense words, and then all of a sudden, she sang the solfege syllables. I was just thunderstruck!! They weren't all right, but they were mostly right. So I sang a scale to her and she sang it with me and then backwards (like, do-re-mi-fa-so-la-ti-do-ti-la-so-fa-mi-re-do). Not an easy thing to do! I sang "good morning, it's great to stay up late" from Singing in the Rain the first morning. She just sang it back to me. I have my work cut out for me!

more later!!
Margaret